Defriend 
To dream of being defriended indicates that you may have been in denial of a social anxiety that may be lurking within you. You may have been spending too much time on the computer making false connections and avoiding true intimacy. Dreaming that you are defriending another person is similar in that you may have been experiencing a false sense of power in the way you have been speaking to others online. Thus, you avoid taking any of the cyberspace connections to a more real level.
Elopement
To dream of eloping usually indicates that there is a situation in your love life that is upsetting.
To dream that your companion has eloped with another person indicates that they have not been honest and faithful to you. If you are married, a dream of elopement suggests that you are in a position that isn't suited for you.
Kidnapper
To dream of being kidnapped symbolizes that you feel your freedom is being threatened. You need to remain calm and focused on your goals, despite someone attempting to deter or distract you.
A dream in which someone you know is kidnapped indicates that the person possesses qualities that you are choosing not to display yourself.
Kidnapping another person in a dream denotes that you are unfairly and forcibly holding on to something in your life. This may be as simple as your observations or outlooks.
Scarecrow
To dream of a scarecrow symbolizes that something is causing you great distress and you are unsure of how to deal with this misery.
Whitewash
To dream of yourself whitewashing implies that you are trying to change your habits and ways. It may also imply that you are just trying to cover up your flaws and pretend to change.
Affection
To dream that you are showing affection for someone, you are content and happy with your present relationship. This dream could also mean that you should show more warmth to those you care about.
Instant Message
To dream of an instant message may reveal an important detail about your inner self. The instant message could contain advice or a clue to your innermost desires. Alternatively, you may be too heavily occupied with gossip or chatter in your day to day life.