Wake
To dream of yourself at the wake for a waking life friend or family member foreshadows the telling of sad or disastrous news.
To view a friend attending a wake is far more ominous, as it indicates that the friend may be in mortal danger.
Waking up in a dream is an indication that you are unhappy in your life. There is an missing or incomplete aspect. Consider your life, what goals have you not achieved? What is missing? Use your talents or abilities to obtain them.
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